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5 points submitted 1 hour agoWell ”desperation” is different than ”toxicity,” so that fair. I not doing everything mentioned in the OP canada goose uk site to meet women. I mean, I like to think I still groom and maintain canada goose outlet in chicago hygiene even if I asexual+aromantic. Buying new clothes+glasses is done primarily to help with women, but canada goose outlet boston does that really confer desperation? It not like I walking around with a tag that says ”Bought with the intent of attracting women.” Standup is in the middle; I definitely glean a lot of satisfaction from the act itself, but even at shitty open mics, there usually something in the back of my head www.canadagoose-sale.co.uk saying ”Hey, maybe you make a woman laugh tonight and she be canada goose outlet online reviews interested!”And thanks for the positivity. Much of canada goose outlet legit a snarky cynic as I am, I do appreciate it.AuntieApocalypse 2 points submitted 4 hours agoSorry, I should canada goose jacket outlet uk have posted some context. I don think it a transman or woman, though I can be 100 sure since the username was deleted. Over the last week or so there have been a lot of posts arguing about transwomen and the validity of their experiences and that attracted some people from the GC crowd valourizing being chromosomally female and some trans women arguing against the central importance of being chromosomally female for their womanhood.So I read this post in the context canada goose outlet washington dc of the debate that was canada goose outlet woodbury taking place over the worth of cis women vs. transwomen based on their chromosomes and essentially canada goose outlet price saying ”You don have to be a transwoman to think having XX chromosomes makes a woman worthless” (Note that what this poster wrote isn what any of the transwomen were actually arguing).Bonzeye_ [score hidden] submitted 7 hours agoI am actually quite aware of a woman ability to act sexually. I have caught my gf looking at guys once or twice and shared a good laugh canada goose outlet mall with her about it but this was more than a furtive glance and we both know it. Although maybe there is something to what you saying. The women that canada goose outlet store uk tend to have unhealthy views towards sex are the ones who tend to have conversations like this, while the ones that have more respect for their SO (including some represented in this thread) tend not to. Shitty people do exist I guess, thanks for the reminder.charlzebub [score hidden] submitted 6 hours agoThe women that tend to have unhealthy views towards sex are the ones who tend to have conversations like this, while the ones that have more respect for their SO (including some represented in this thread) tend not to.Hahahahaha. Gonna go with that being backwards.She not cheating on her SO and she not actually seeking this dude out, she joking around with her friends. She respects canada goose outlet black friday her SO just fine. And yes, shitty people do exist, but I don think OPs wife is one of them.But you seem canada goose outlet store quebec unclear why she keeps bringing it up, so let me explain to you why someone would keep bringing something up over and over again, its simple really, they feel like they not being heard.And its canada goose jacket uk obvious you not listening to her, you want it to be ”over” and to be ”in the past”, which maybe one day it will be, but before then you have to listen to your wife, and really really hear and understand her hurt, her pain, her sense of betrayal, and how you have shattered her trust in you, in marriage, in relationships, in men.Until she thinks that you heard her, that you get it, that you actually sorry and won do it again, you will hear this this everyday until you die.You canada goose kensington parka uk know who would help you with this? A couples therapist.I like some help coming up with ways to bring it up to her that are less hurtful. Perhaps canada goose outlet factory I wasn very clear. canada goose outlet england I know she be upset either way. But with her, the less upset I can keep her, the better. If I can soften the blow by even 10%, the difference in my quality of life afterward would be huge.I not one of these people that just hates being around angry people. I personally couldn give a shit, generally speaking. But when she in a shit mood, everyone else gets sucked down with her. As such, saying canada goose vest outlet anything to her that isn 100% positive often needs to be handled with lots of canada goose outlet uk fake preparation.And yes. I aware of how fucked up that all sounds.My partner is an attorney that specializes in the mentally ill, and I tell you what he tells the friends and family of his clients ”You cannot love someone well again.” No matter how much you love her, no matter how good your intentions, you cannot make her well simply by loving her. Be well and take care canada goose jacket outlet store of yourself, because you have some rough road ahead of you, I hope you have support for yourself in place, cuz you gonna need it.And remember, the most important swimmer in the water is you. And you can save anyone is you drowning, and my dude, it sounds like you drowning. I hope someone is there to canada goose factory outlet vancouver throw you a lifesaver.At 19 I met a man 27 years older than me who gave me attention and was interested in what I was interested in and complimented me in ways my dad didn and I was confused and manipulated into running away with him hours from my family.I ended up spending nearly 6 years being emotionally, physically and sexually Canada Goose Black Friday sale abused by this guy before I finally got away.OP husband is sowing the seeds in his daughters to grow up with the same ideas about how a woman relates to a man. We can see how it all worked out for me. I been out of that situation for as long as I was in canada goose outlet in usa it and I still have severe PTSD. I was only able to work again within the past two years. My brain is totally fucked from it all and I doubt I canada goose outlet real will ever truly be normal again.I hope canada goose outlet locations in toronto OP does the right thing here dad needs a come to Jesus talk and if things don change pretty much right away I think she and the kids should bounce.I also chased relationships with men that were simply not interested in me. Some seriously terrible life lessons to learn as a child, and then act out as an adult. I glad you go out, and I glad I got out too. Its been 15+ years for me, so please believe me when I tell you it does get better. You will find peace and happiness and love. Just give yourself time and space to heal, baby steps, because even a baby step is still a step forward. You got this. :)OP you need to think about what lessons your daughters are learning daily. On what it means to be a woman in a relationship with a man. And what it canada goose outlet vancouver means to be married. Because I promise you these seeds he planting right now will bear fruit down the road.

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